We’re all good at different things, and most of the time how good we are at something depends upon how confident we are in that area. The same is true for sex-regardless of whether you can twist your body into the shape of a pretzel and lick your way through the Great Wall of China. If you don’t have confidence, you can’t be good in bed-or, for that matter, enjoy sex as much as its possible for you to enjoy it. Forget learning tricks or spending a fortune on high end sex toys (although a few are a good idea, as you’ll find out), the first lesson in becoming a sexual master is mastering yourself!
Body Confidence
Body confidence has little to do with the way your body looks and everything to do with the way you feel. A woman with the physique of Elle Macpherson can still be completely un-sexy if she’s not in touch with her inner goddess, just as someone of virtually any size can be absolutely, irresistibly sexy. Of course, it’s easier said than done, learning to love your body, and even the most steadfast of self-lovers need a little boost in self esteem every once in a while. Focus on one part of your body you love-you may have great breasts, a bum you love in a particular skirt or shoulders with glowing skin. Whatever it is-flaunt it, and tell yourself out loud how sexy it is. This may seem silly, but your subconscious mind can’t tell the difference between whether your conscious mind believes it or not, and sooner or later it’ll start to believe it-and in turn, release the sexpot within!
Sexy Secrets
One of the simplest ways to boost sexual confidence is to have a sexy secret with yourself. You may be wearing particularly naughty underwear one day-or none at all-or even just fantasizing about a sexual memory in your head. Thinking sexy thoughts-especially secret ones-sends out a strong sexual energy, and you’ll notice others reacting to the charge in the air.
Knowing what you want
A big part of sexual confidence is knowing what you want and how your body responds to certain stimuli. Play around with a vibrator and have fun figuring out exactly where your most sensitive areas are, what kind of pressure you like and which positions get you hot. Then, when it comes time to replicate the moves with a partner you’ll be having fun-and fun is definitely sexy.
Doing it for you
Regardless of the benefits that sexual confidence may have for your sex life and relationships with other people, the primary reason for wanting to be more sexually confidence should be about you-because your sexuality is a gift and should be celebrated, which is exactly what being confident is all about.
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