Anal sex is a very pleasurable experience, for both men and women. However, just remember these important points, and your job will be a lot easier!
1) Lubricants are the most important thing you can have when you are going for anal sex. Unlike the vagina, the anal canal does not produce lubricants on its own. For this reason, it is preferable that you use one. Make sure you get a silicon based one though. This is because lubes like Vaseline tend to clog the canal.
2) Anticipation is one of the best foreplay you can give her. Arousing her with teasing and caresses will make sure she is ready for you. If you do not do this, she will only feel pain when you enter her there. Make it pleasurable for both of you, with lots of lovemaking and seduction. After all, that is the only thing that can make it good for you also!
3) There is no alternative to clean sex. A condom is always a good idea when you go for anal sex. It prevents diseases and avoids a lot of discomfort for her if you don’t leave your ‘remnants ‘there after all that pleasure!
4) There are certain things you should NEVER do. Never ever put your organ into her rear without her permission. She is not an object, so don’t treat her like one. If she has agreed to go through all that for your pleasure, respect her and her body for it. Never ejaculate inside her unless you have her permission. Don’t be forceful in there, no matter how excited you are.
5) It need not be about you all the time. Let her give you a hand up your rear too. It can be one of the most amazing of experiences for you.
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