When it comes to sexual matters every woman is different. This can make pleasing her quite challenging for many guys. Fortunately, there are certain ways that increase the chances of her getting not only one but even multiple orgasms. One of the ways is to stimulate the g-spot. Here is what you need to do.
(1) Turn her on and make her wet first
The best time to give a woman a g-spot orgasm is when the g-spot is swollen as a result of her becoming sexually aroused. If she is not aroused, the g-spot can be quite difficult to locate. This means you have to spend a lot of time on foreplay. Most important is you have to make her feel mentally, emotionally and physically relaxed.
The best way to arouse her is to give her at least two clitoral orgasms through oral stimulation or fingering. When she is aroused, the g-spot will be swollen as blood pumps up this area, making it easier for you to locate the g-spot with your fingers.
(2) Give her oral sex
Most women love oral sex. This means you can easily make her orgasm one to two times before you actually rub her g-spot. What you need to is to use your tongue to stimulate the clitoris and the area around it.
You start by giving a light flip on her clitoris using the tip of your tongue and then you move to the area around the clitoris. This is because at the initial stage when she is not yet aroused, too much attention on her clitoris can be uncomfortable to her. It is only when she is quite aroused that you can give her clitoris more attention.
(3) Get the help from luxury sex toys
There are some concerns from guys that luxury vibrators will give a woman such intense sexual pleasure that she will not desire actual sex anymore. This is not true because there is nothing that can replace the closeness and intimacy of sex with a person.
A vibrator or other quality sex toys are just helping hands for giving pleasure and are not meant to replace a sex partner. Clitoral Lelo vibrators work well because many women can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Therefore you tease and please her with a vibrator before you begin to finger her g-spot.
(4) You finger her
Assuming that by now she should be fully aroused, you can start to reach for her g-spot using your fingers. Make sure your fingernails are trimmed and your fingers are lubricated. You insert one finger about two inches inside her and massage the g-spot gently for a minute or so to warm her up. Once she is ready, you insert a second finger inside her. Your palm should be facing upwards so that the tip of your two fingers should be pressing against the front wall of her vagina. The motion of your two fingers should be rubbing the g-spot up and down and not thrusting in and out of her because this does not hit her g-spot.
You will know you are doing the right thing in finding her g-spot when she starts to moan in pleasure much more. She will also feel as if she is going to urinate. When giving her g-spot stimulation, you slowly ramp up the intensity as she gets more turned on. You keep going on gradually increasing your pace of stimulation. When she reaches orgasm, you do not pull out if her vaginal wall squeezes against your fingers but just hold your fingers there.
(5) Choosing the sex positions that can reach her g-spot easily
Under the normal missionary position, it is not possible to make her orgasm because the penis will not be able to curve upward to rub against her g-spot. The following are some positions which can reach her g-spot easily and turn you into a woman-pleasing stud.
- Woman-on-top: When she is on top, she can adjust her body in a way that can allow her g-spot to be stimulated through penetration.
- Enter her from behind: Rear entry gives you a good angle of stimulating her g-spot. You can also easily adjust the position and intensity of the thrusting.
- Modified missionary: When she is lying on her back, you place one to two pillows under her pelvis region so that her lower part of the body is raised probably up to 45 degrees. This angle will allow you to reach her g-spot easily.
Or, another way is to get her legs bent far back so that her knees are pressing against her chests and you enter her. If this is a bit uncomfortable for her, let her legs rest on your shoulders instead and you can penetrate her in this way.
Of course, no matter what position you are using, you can give her additional pleasure by stimulating her clitoris at the same time (either you or she does it).